Every guy knows that women can feel attracted to a man if he’s rich, if he’s a celebrity, if he’s tall and handsome, if he’s got a luxury yacht or a sports car and things like that.
However, what a lot of guys don’t know or accept is that women CAN feel attracted and turned on by a normal guy if he displays attractive personality traits while he interacts with her.
For example: Women from all over the world are attracted to guys who are:
- Socially intelligent.
When some guys see that list above, they think women are only attracted to men with those personality traits if the man is also rich or if he’s got a big dick or if he’s got a sports car, but that is incorrect.
Average looking and below average looking guys ARE able to get attractive women.
Guys all over the world are able to attract and pick up women and even get married to those women if they’re overweight, bald, have big ears, have a funny looking nose, are from a race where others say they can’t pick up women from another particular race (e.g. Asian guy with white woman, white guy with black woman, black guy with white woman, white guy with hot white woman) or if they’re generally just not very good-looking.
The reason why these sort of guys can attract and pick up women is that it is true that a normal guy can make a woman feel sexually attracted and turned on during an interaction.
When a guy is talking to a woman, he can MAKE HER feel attracted by displaying traits like confidence, humor, charm, charisma, social intelligence, masculinity, etc.
The majority of guys out there who can’t get laid or get a girlfriend believe that it’s because they’re not good-looking enough or rich enough.
Yet, the truth is that the majority of these guys don’t actually make women feel sexually attracted and turned on during an interaction.
Instead, they just talk to women and display traits that don’t create sexual attraction. For example: The guy will display personality traits like niceness, kindness, politeness, and academic intelligence.
A guy will try to show a woman that he’s a nice guy, he’s a good guy and that he’s trustworthy and has good intentions, but women don’t care about those things before they feel sexually attracted and turned on by a guy.
Women do appreciate when a guy is nice and women do appreciate when a guy is intelligent, but that is only important to a woman AFTER she feels sexually attracted to a guy.
If a guy tries to pick her up by showing her that he’s a nice guy and has good intentions, then he’s just like every other guy who wants to bang her.
Every other guy comes up to her and is like, “Hey, how are you doing? What’s your name? Have you got a boyfriend? What do you do for a living? Can I take you out sometime?”
He’s feeling attracted to her because we men feel sexually attracted to a woman’s physical appearance instantly, but she’s not feeling sexually attracted to him because he’s just being nice to her.
He’s just being a good guy to her and having an innocent, friendly conversation with her, but that approach doesn’t make a woman feel sexually attracted and turned on unless a guy is really good looking, a celebrity or obviously very rich and powerful in society.
If a guy is just a normal, everyday guy, he has to CREATE a spark of sexual attraction inside of a woman by displaying personality traits that naturally attract women (e.g. confidence, charisma, emotional masculinity, charm).
He can’t just be nice and have a friendly conversation and then expect to get laid or get a girlfriend because of that.
This doesn’t mean that a guy has to be a bad boy or treat women badly. Instead, it means that he has to display traits that make women feel sexually attracted and turned on when he’s interacting with her.
He has to do that, otherwise most women will just experience neutral or friendly type of feelings for him.
The really cool thing about this is that the majority of guys out there don’t know it.
The majority of guys think that they have to be rich or good-looking or tall to be able to attract a beautiful woman, but it’s not actually true.
It is true that beautiful women do feel attracted to guys with money or to guys who are really good-looking, tall or famous.
That’s true, but what is also true is that the majority of women, including beautiful women, can feel sexually attracted and turned on by a normal guy.
Beautiful women can feel attracted to a normal guy who doesn’t have all the trappings of success.
For example: He doesn’t have the luxury yacht, he doesn’t have the sports car and he’s not rich. He’s just got a normal body, he doesn’t necessarily workout in the gym and he doesn’t look like a male model.
He’s just a normal everyday guy, and yet he’s got a beautiful girlfriend.
The truth is that the more attractive personality traits that you display when you’re talking to a woman, the stronger the attraction that she will feel, and then the higher quality of woman that you can have access to.
When a guy can only make women feel a little bit of attraction, he can’t get the hotties, but when a guy can interact with hot women, and he can actively make them feel sexually attracted and turned on by what he’s saying and doing, he gets the hotties.
However, I want to point something important out here….
The 8 personality traits that naturally attract women are when a guy is confident, masculine, funny, unpredictable, charming, sexual, charismatic, and socially intelligent.
Yet, here’s the thing…
A guy can pick up a lot of women just by displaying 1 to 3 of those traits.
You don’t have to talk to a woman and display all 8 traits to be able to pick her up.
The way that it works is that the stronger attraction that you can make women feel during a conversation, during an interaction by displaying attractive traits, the higher-quality woman that you’ll have access to.
You can still pick up a lot of women by displaying a few traits, but if you want to get the hotties, you’ve just got to be able to give her the attraction experience that she wants.
She’s hot, she’s physically attractive and you want to bang her.
You’re feeling sexually attracted to her based on her appearance and are ready and willing to have kiss her, go on a date with her or have sex with her.
However, if you want her to want to have sex with you or be your girlfriend, you’ve got to make her feel attracted to you too.
You need to actively create a spark of sexual attraction inside of her to make her feel sexually attracted and turned on by you, otherwise you’re just one of hundreds, if not thousands, of guys who are lining up to want to stick it in.
So, what you need to understand is that if you want to get laid or get a girlfriend, what you’ve got to do is make the woman feel sexually attracted and turned on by the way that you’re talking to her, rather than just making her feel neutral or friendly type of feelings when you’re displaying traits like niceness, politeness, friendliness, and things like that.
There’s nothing wrong with being nice or polite or friendly, but if you’re not actively making her feel sexually attracted and turned on, then you’re just another guy to her.
She’s not going to feel motivated enough to want to have sex with you or give you her phone number or do anything else with you.
Of course, an exception to the rule is when a guy is rich or famous or he’s really good-looking.
We all know that.
We all know that those guys can get attention from women, but the really cool thing about being a man is that we can actively make women feel sexually attracted and turned on by us by what we say and do when we’re talking to them.
For example: Have you ever had a woman say about her boyfriend or husband, “I wasn’t initially attracted to him looks wise, but when we began to talk I found that I really liked him, and that there was a spark between us. Now, I think he’s the sexiest man alive,” or another woman saying, “When I first saw him, I didn’t find him attractive, but when we talked I felt a spark with him and we started dating, quickly fell in love and are now married.”
That’s how it works.
There are some women out there who will not accept anything less than a rich guy who’s got a luxury yacht, and he’s famous, and he can take her around the world, etc.
That is true, but what is also true is that the majority of women, including beautiful women, can feel sexually attracted and turned on by a normal guy if he can display attractive personality traits and behaviors during an interaction with her.
So, if you’re not getting the results that you want with women, and you want to be able to easily get laid or get a girlfriend, I recommend that you read my eBook, The Flow, or listen to the brand-new audio version, The Flow on Audio.
The Flow is the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend, and the best thing of all is that the majority of guys do not know about this or they don’t accept the fact that you can actually turn a woman on during an interaction.
Most guys look at beautiful women and think, “I can’t get that because I’m not good-looking enough, I’m not rich enough,” but they’re wrong. Not only is it possible to create a spark of attraction inside of a beautiful woman when you talk to her, but it’s also EASY.
This is a huge opportunity for you.
When you are the guy who can actively attract and turn women on during an interaction, you’ll see how damn easy it is to attract and pick up women.
Once you begin using The Flow on women, you’ll laugh at how easy it is and you might look back at the way that you used to try to get laid or get a girlfriend and shake your head and think, “What was I thinking? What was I doing? This is so damn easy,”
The best part of all is that most guys don’t know about it or they don’t accept it because they think it’s all about looks and money.
They look at examples where they see guys who are rich or good-looking and they’ve got a beautiful girlfriend, and think, “See, that’s what beautiful women want.”
Yet, they don’t look at the rest of the world and see loads of beautiful and pretty women with normal looking guys and sometimes below average looking guys.
We are very lucky as men because we can actively turn women on during an interaction.
- Dan Bacon